That voice inside your head is one of the things that is going to coach you more than anyone else ever will. What you need to do is become aware of that voice. Think about this... if that voice was displayed over a loudspeaker, would you be proud or would you have some reservations?

“Omg this is so hard...,I’ll start tomorrow.., Pull back a little bit today..., They won’t know...” What It looks like just thoughts , It would become your words and actions.

Let’s transform that into Affirmative Self-Talk. What do you tell yourself immediately after you’ve made a good choice or a solid performance? Your affirmative self-talk needs to include:​ “That’s me. I will keep doing what I’m doing and I will keep .... the way I’m....” (fill the blank)
For example, a person completes his/her second week of running out of a 3 month plan. This confident person thinks, “I’ve already completed tow out of two week because I will complete my next week”

Think of success as long-lasting and believe you are destined for good things. Now, what do you tell yourself immediately after you’ve had a not-so-good week or session? Affirmative (never negative) self-talk needs to be included “That’s not like me. That was just a blip. Now I will adjust and turn this around”
For example, the same person misses on his/her second week. The still-confident runner thinks “I’ve already completed one out of two weeks because my next next week will be right on target”

Think of failure as short-lived - soon replaced by success. Always believe that a disappointment is replaced by your next success - Jim Afremow

WOW! What a year? Strange times for sure, a lot to take on, blue days, mental health, setbacks and uncertainty... My question is how can I maintain sanity, confidence, positivity and a “normal” routine during this times?

First thing that I like to remind to myself is that: Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, and your actions dictate your life ( not my quote but I read/listen it from different sources) Thoughts - Words - Actions. Sometimes changing our thoughts can be a big task, but the good thing is that we can start changing our actions. So let’s start this process. It is a matter of steps. Be great at this one, then that one, and then the one after that. The process is simple, but it’s not easy.


// Actions //

Ownership. Take absolute ownership of your actions. People who have the capacity to own their problems are the ones who will most quickly discover solutions to those problems. If we take inner responsibility of our actions we can be aware and learn how to change it. Instead of stop making excuses about what happen to us, which only teaches us to outsource responsibility. Discipline brings freedom - J. Wilkins.
Strategy: when something happens, analyse it from a “it’s my responsibility” point of view.

Discipline. It requires short-term pain for long-term gain. It’s painful, in the short term, to get up at 5:00 a.m. and work out; it’s painful to say no to a cookie. Long-term, though, it adds up to incredible gains. When we see successful people in life, in business, and in relationships, they are living in a discipline process that leads to greatness; these are the people who get up early to workout, who say no to crappy food, who carve out time for learning and mindfulness. They take the time to establish what’s important to them and what habits will get them where they want to go.
Strategy: Don’t... snooze the alarm, skip a workout, eat seconds.

Inside Control vs out of control. The Stoic philosophy talks about all the time, either there are things inside or outside of our control. Identifying what’s external and internal allows us to understand how to make the right choices.
Strategy: A typical example is bad weather, e.g -4 degrees when we need to run outdoor. You can not control 90% of this situation, but there is the 10% that we can change with: how we perceive and the judgement of the situation (positive mindset), our actions (wearing an extra layer) and willingness to accept what’s outside our control (I’m going to do it anyway).

// Thoughts //
Think about greater mastery of yourself and break personal barriers. Thoughts are great, in fact the process of thinking about a new idea generates dopamine in our brain that makes us feel great and motivated, however most of the time we stop there, missing the most important part...Actions lead to actions. You have been thinking about it, you delayed it, you got distracted. That’s ok you can start now.
Strategy: Stop thinking, start acting.

Positivity: A positive mindset is a phenomenal weapon, nevertheless staying positive is difficult for humans because our DNA is hardwired to hold on to negative experiences over positive ones, for sheer survival. Negativity, though, is immensely detrimental to performance, any performance physical or mental. When you’re in a negative mindset, you’re slower and less precise. Positivity, by contrast, is directly linked to improved performance.
Strategy: Next time you have a negative thought, try to revert it to positive or reframe it. E.g. “I’m so tired,I can’t run 10km today” versus “I’m so tired, but I will start running the first few kilometres and see how I feel”


Focus. Keeping the task in hand the main thing, acknowledging where you are, identifying where you want to be, and breaking it down into pieces.
Strategy: Am I committing everything I have to make myself the tiniest percentage better than I am right now, no matter how hard I have to work, no matter what I have to give up, no matter how long it takes?